It is with profound sadness that I reflect on the life and legacy of Father Philip Cleary, affectionately known as Father Phil, a man who dedicated his life to serving others, particularly the children and youth of Nuestros Pequeños Hermanos (NPH). Born on September 5, 1953, in Chicago, Illinois, he was the second of seven children. Father Phil pursued his education at Loyola University and the Archdiocesan seminary, earning a bachelor’s degree in psychology and a master’s degree in theology. His academic background prepared him well for the challenges he would face in his ministry.
After his ordination in 1979, Father Phil was assigned to serve in a poor parish located in a predominantly Mexican-Puerto Rican neighborhood. Here, he worked tirelessly to support young people facing various challenges, providing guidance and mentorship to those who needed it most. His commitment to helping troubled youth was evident as he served as a counselor and dorm director at a home for juvenile delinquents before fully embracing his calling with NPH.
In 1984, Father Phil’s journey with NPH began when he volunteered at the orphanage in Mexico. What was initially intended as a short-term commitment quickly transformed into a lifelong dedication. He became deeply involved with the organization, ultimately serving as National Director of NPH Mexico and later as Executive Director of NPH International. His work at NPH was characterized by an unwavering commitment to the welfare of vulnerable children. He created initiatives like “Proyecto Milpillas,” which provided education and resources to families living near a landfill in Miacatlán, ensuring that children had access to essential services.
Following his impactful work with Proyecto Milpillas, Father Phil extended his mission to Matamoros, where he helped establish “Ciudad de los Niños de Matamoros.” This initiative aimed to provide shelter and support for children affected by the violence and poverty prevalent in the border region. Through this program, Father Phil ensured that these children received not only basic necessities but also educational opportunities and emotional support. His compassion and dedication were instrumental in creating a safe haven for many vulnerable children who had experienced unimaginable hardships.
My relationship with Father Phil was one of profound respect and admiration. I arrived at NPH when I was just 15 years old, alongside my siblings. From our first moments together, Father Phil made me feel welcomed and valued. He was more than just a priest; he became a close friend and mentor. I remember how he would often seek my input on his homilies, demonstrating his genuine interest in understanding our culture and experiences. He would ask me questions about what certain phrases meant or how to connect better with the community we served.
Father Phil had an incredible ability to relate to us on a personal level. He encouraged us to pursue our education and instilled in us the importance of holding onto our values. His advice resonated deeply; he would often remind us to be true to ourselves and help others whenever possible. I felt blessed when he attended my high school graduation, celebrating my achievements with pride—a moment I will cherish forever.
His masses were not just religious services; they were profound experiences that brought us closer to God. The way he delivered his sermons spoke directly to our hearts, addressing our struggles and aspirations without pre-tense or judgment. He had an extraordinary gift for making faith accessible and relatable.
As I reflect on Father Phil’s life, I am reminded of his immense impact on countless lives. He was not only a spiritual guide but also a father figure to many of us at NPH. His compassion knew no bounds, and his legacy will continue through the lives he touched. We will honor his memory by carrying forward his mission—extending love and support to those who need it most.
Rest in peace, dear Father Phil. Your light will forever shine in our hearts, guiding us as we strive to emulate your example of love and service.